Why do people want to put labels on things so fast?
I have gotten messages from people thinking now that I am outgoing because I am exhibitionistic.
First of all, that post I made saying I was in an exhibitionistic mood was more of a joke. I often joke around with things like that.
Second of all, yes, I do like to be watched some times, but that is in more private situations and doesn't really have to do with exhibitionism.
Third, why the labels????? Can we just be humans without having to get a print in our foreheads. Do you have to have things easy????
I am outgoing because its my nature. I am curious and I love people, okay???
I whish people would just stop seeing categories and start seeing life instead.
Also, if they feel hurt by not getting what they wanted from me (or something/ somebody else) Why react by trying to hurt me? I dont get it. If I feel hurt and its nobodys fault, I just stay witht that feeling.
No reason to act it out. In my opinion, acting it out in that way just means that you just dont dare to feel hurt, so you have to project it out on somebody.
Something related to this.....
I found this in a profile lately and really loved it:
"Personally, I find societies obsession with what a persons sexuality is a bit annoying. Whether you're bi/pan/omni/gay- - /lesbian/queer/straight... or even asexual... we're all just sexual, labeling seems less important (we don't fit into pidgeon-holes, we are not just black and white).
I think I'm going to steal an idea I saw on a placard at a gay pride parade, and just say that my sexual preference is often"
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