I am not a fan of "rules for conduct"
But there were a few good advices here
xxx
Aasa
But there were a few good advices here
xxx
Aasa
If somebody wants you, nothing can keep them away.
If they don't want you, nothing can make them stay.
Stop making excuses for a person and their behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to
be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a somebody else. Instead find out what
makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the person was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't
mistreat a friend.
If you feel like he/she is stringing you along, then he/she probably is. Don't
stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person
you can control in a relationship is you.
You cannot change a persons behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make anybody feel they are more important than you are...Do not make him/her into a quasi-god. He/she is a human, nothing more nothing less.
Never let somebody else define who you are.
A person will only treat you the way you ALLOW them to treat you.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way
street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
complimentary...not supplementary.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of people stay in
relationships that are abusive or hurtful
You should know that you're the best thing that could ever happen to
anyone and if someone mistreats you, they'll miss out on a good thing. If
they were attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that they´re not the
only one - you have a lot of choices.
Make the right one - take care of your own heart....
Stop making excuses for a person and their behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to
be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a somebody else. Instead find out what
makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the person was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't
mistreat a friend.
If you feel like he/she is stringing you along, then he/she probably is. Don't
stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person
you can control in a relationship is you.
You cannot change a persons behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make anybody feel they are more important than you are...Do not make him/her into a quasi-god. He/she is a human, nothing more nothing less.
Never let somebody else define who you are.
A person will only treat you the way you ALLOW them to treat you.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way
street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
complimentary...not supplementary.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of people stay in
relationships that are abusive or hurtful
You should know that you're the best thing that could ever happen to
anyone and if someone mistreats you, they'll miss out on a good thing. If
they were attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that they´re not the
only one - you have a lot of choices.
Make the right one - take care of your own heart....
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